For those that want to really explore their sexuality but are shy about talking about the experience, there’s a book with a conversational tone that encourages you to use tools and exercises to reflect on life experiences and make a mission statement.
What You Really, Really Want by Jaclyn Friedman
This book gathers qualitative data, specifically sixty interviews to show how narratives about Asian American gender and sexuality reinforce dominance by whites. It goes into beauty, self-esteem, and sexual attraction.
Asian American Sexual Politics by Rosalind S. Chou